Increasing mourning during this month of Av when our level of joy is decreased. What we do and don't do as Tisha B'Av (9th of Av) approaches as well as on Tisha B'Av itself. How mourning for a loved one differs from mourning the destruction of the Beis HaMikdash (The Holy Temple) on Mt. Moriah in Jerusalem. Examining our relationship to our loss.