The 3 weeks Bein Hametzarim
Our mourning increases. Raize mentions the list of things we should not do.
Yes, historically this is an unpleasant, bad time for the Jewish people and we just want it to pass quickly. But it is a pity to look at the 3 weeks only in this way, although it is a sad time, it is an opportune time. It is a time of introspection and getting close to Hashem. We should think about what we had. They say, we were born in the dungeon and we can't begin to understand what we are missing. By learning, talking, thinking, reading about the destruction of the Temple, we can feel like you are there.